Win Your Ex Back – The Uncensored Story Of What I Did To Win My Ex Back

14 March, 2010 | Tyler | No Comment

Hi there,

My name’s Tyler, and if you’re looking to win your ex back then I’m glad you came across this site and I strongly suggest you keep reading.

This is my uncensored story of how I overcame the odds to get my ex back.  It’s all about the ups, the downs, what stuff didn’t work, and the one thing that ultimately helped me win my ex back.

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I promise not to keep you too long, but you need to read this.  You need to know that it IS possible to win your ex back.

It all started 5 months ago.

Mikka and I had split up after a one year relationship.  Both of us were at fault, and we both decided to take time apart.  It didn’t take me long to realize that I didn’t want that time apart.  Just the possibility of losing her forever set me on a downwards spiral.  You know what they say…you don’t know how incredibaly amazing something is until you lose it.  I lost it.  Her.

The first couple of weeks were pure HELL!

I couldn’t sleep.  I didn’t want to eat (except peanut butter and jelly sandwiches).  I stayed locked in my room all day and night, watching sappy romantic comedies and blaring Boys II Men’s “End of the Road”.  I constantly worried about what Mikka was doing.  Did she find someone else?  Is she really over me, or is there a chance?  What if I’ve lost her forever?  These and plenty more negative thoughts danced around in my head 24/7.  My desperate pleas for her to come back weren’t helping either.

This all went on for two weeks.  The worst two weeks of my life!  I was slowly sinking deeper and deeper into a state of depression.  I felt like I was in quicksand with no way out…slowly getting pulled deeper and deeper into it.  These behaviors of mine were so far away from my normal self that I felt like a stranger in my own body.  I needed to do something, and I needed to do it quick.

Like most everyone, I tried to win her back without any guidance or help.  I am a guy!  I don’t need help!  I was dead wrong.

My first attempts involved constant phone calls and text messages, which involved declaring my undying love for her and how I felt like a part of me had died inside without her with me.  Bad move.  I went to her place on more than one occasion where we talked.  Things were seeming okay until I brought up the possibility of us getting back together.  Not working.  This only pushed her farther away and brought up a blame game we had started playing with each other ever since the break up.  You know…it was your fault.  No…it was your fault!

I didn’t know what to do, and I was starting to run out of ideas.  I felt helpless and feared that it might actually be over between us for good.  As a last ditch effort, I turned to the internet for guidance.

Man, am I glad I did it!

A search on Google for “get back with ex” brought me to the book that showed me the way to get my ex back.  It’s called The Magic of Making Up, and I would recommend to anyone!  100%!!

I can’t even begin to describe how amazing The Magic of Making Up worked for me!  Only six short weeks after reading it one time through, I had Mikka back in my arms where she belongs.  And we couldn’t be happier together!

I never thought of actually using a plan to win my ex back.  Quite frankly, I didn’t even know a planned existed for such a thing.  It does, and it works!  The ideas and directions that The Magic of Making Up taught me were completely priceless in winning Mikka back.  And, come to find out, everything I was doing to try and get my ex back was actually hurting my chances.  Most of us think that by acting desperate and trying to make your ex feel guilty, it will drive them back to us.  That’s not the case, and The Magic of Making Up taught me that.

It’s been a little over 3 months since I’ve read The Magic of Making Up, and Mikka and I are still together…our relationship and love for each other is the strongest it’s ever been.

I’ve learned alot from this adventure…love can really endure, anything is possible, and making the greatest sacrifices can give you the greatest rewards.  It’s been an emotional roller coaster ride, but I’ve learned a lot about myself and so has Mikka.  We wouldn’t trade that experience for the world.

I want you to know…right now…that you CAN win your ex back!  It’s far from impossible, and it’s not nearly as difficult as you might think it is.  Be willing to make changes.  Be willing to go the extra mile.  Be willing not to give up.  You can win love back and get your ex back into your arms forever!  Trust me.  I did.

 

***A note for those considering getting The Magic of Making Up***

I cannot recommend it enough!  The advice literally saved my relationship.  It’s amazing the number of us who go about trying to win our ex back the completely wrong way without even realizing it.  The Magic of Making Up puts everything into perspective and reveals simple strategies that you can literally start using right away.  If I had one criticism of The Magic of Making Up, it would be that it wasn’t organized enough for me.  I personally like things in order.  However, I wouldn’t let that stop you from getting it if you’re really interested in getting your ex back.

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Getting Your Ex Back – 6 Tips You Can Start Using Right Now To Get Your Ex Back

6 March, 2010 | Tyler | No Comment

Are you ready to discover some tips that will help you win your ex back at this very moment?  I hope you are.  I know from personal experience that every one of these tips is beneficial  to your success in winning your ex back as quickly as possible.

Do yourself a favor.  Read these tips.  Write them down.  Study them.  But most importantly, practice them!  You’ll love yourself for doing it.

1.  Don’t lock yourself in your room

Get out of your room!  Locking yourself in your room and sulking is a recipe for disaster.  This is what I did for the first month after Mikka and I broke up.  I can’t tell you how many peanut butter-and-jelly sandwiches I crammed during that period.  I got fat.  I got depressed.  I got angry at myself.  Then, I wised up and picked myself off the bed, wiped away my tears and started working on the next tip.

2.  Start building your confidence back up

You’re telling yourself that you must not have been good enough for your ex.  That’s a bunch of bull!  The break up has caused you to lose your self-esteem.  You’re not going to win your ex back in this kind of shape.  Get up and go to the gym.  Take up that hobby you put on the back-burner last year.  Involve yourself with something you know you’re good at.  Be social.  This will all help with building your confidence, and let’s face it…confidence is a very attractive quality to anyone!  Especially your ex love.

3.  Determine what the main causes were for the break up

Who’s fault was it?  Yours or your ex’s.  Take a moment and reflect on why the relationship ended in the first place.  Was it from lack of trust?  Did your or your ex do something wrong?  Was it a combinaton of different things?  Determine what changes need to be made by you and your ex before you begin the task of actually winning your ex back.

4.  Break old habits that hurt the relationship

Now that you’ve determined the reasons why the break up happened start working towards correcting those things that drove the two of you apart.  Were you too possessive?  Work on being less possessive and giving your ex some space.  Did you not show enough attention to your ex?  Make the time to spend with your boyfriend/girlfriend and appreciate every moment of it.

5.  Don’t be overtly aggressive

In other words, don’t chase!  This is a turn off for the majority of people and it shows desperation and neediness on your part.  Not attractve qualities by any means.  Give them their space.  Give yourself some space.  Getting your ex back isn’t a sprint to the finish line.  Take your time.  You’ll find out it is well worth it.

6.  Keep in touch

Don’t be too aggressive, but don’t fall off the face of the planet either.  I started contacting Mikka again after about a month.  It was through text messaging and the texts were short and sweet.  As much as you may want to, DO NOT express your undying love and how much you miss her at this moment.  The first text I sent her was to let her know she left one of her shirts at the apartment, which got her back to the apartment.  I kept in touch over the next month and let her escalate the relationship on her own and we were back together before we both knew it.

Follow these six steps and it will be very possible for you to win your ex back.  I wish you luck!

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Win Your Ex Back – What It Will Take To Get Your Ex Back

5 March, 2010 | Tyler | No Comment

Coming from personal experience, let me be the first to tell you that you CAN win your ex back!

And even better, when given the right tools and the desire (like you don’t already have that!), getting your ex back is not nearly as hard as you might think.  What I want to quickly share with you are a couple of things it will take to get your ex back.

1.  The true desire to want your boyfriend/girlfriend back

This may sound like a no brainer, but some people do want their ex back simply because they are used to having them around, or do not like the fact that they’re not the center of their significant other’s attention anymore.  Make sure you’re doing this because you still love your boyfriend/girlfriend and know deep down that there is a strong connection.  If not, then maybe it’s best you let them go.

2.  The willingness to be patient and learn restraint

While it might not be as hard as you think to win your ex back, it won’t be a process that happens over night.  Trust me, I know.  It took me about two months to recapture the heart of Mikka.  I wanted to be with her everyday and anxious to win her back.  Don’t rush it.  Always remember that with patience comes reward.

3.  Don’t give up

Don’t give up.  You might want to at times.  Power through it.  The sacrifices you make and the obstacles you overcome will be worth it in the end.  Not to mention…you’ll win your boyfriend back (or girlfriend).

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